$j(function() {
		

 $j(".button").click(function() {
		// validate and process form

 $j("#loading").show(); 


     var sel = $j("input#sel").val();
	  var fname = $j("input#fname").val();
	  var act = $j("input#act").val();
 $j("#loading_"+sel).show(); 

		var dataString = 'sel='+ sel + '&act=' + act + '&fname=' + fname;

		//alert (dataString);return false;

//var rstring ="<a href='#' class='button' id='contact_form"+sel+"' onclick=\"document.form.sel.value="+sel+";document.form.act.value='"+act2+"';document.form.fname.value='"+fname+"';\">"+stext2+"</a>";

	alert (rstring);

	$j.ajax({
      type: "POST",
      url: "process.php",
      data: dataString,
      success: function() {
//	alert("post success");
        //$j('#contact_form'+sel).html("<span id='message' style='float:left'></span>");

if(act=='remove') { $j('#remove'+sel).fadeOut(0, function() {
          $j('#add'+sel).show();
$j('#add'+sel).removeAttr("disabled"); 
          $j('#remove'+sel).hide();
        });
}

if(act=='add') { $j('#add'+sel).fadeOut(0, function() {
          $j('#remove'+sel).show();
$j('#remove'+sel).removeAttr("disabled"); 
          $j('#add'+sel).hide();

        });
}

if(act=='removefriend') { $j('#remove'+sel).fadeOut(0, function() {
          $j('#add'+sel).show();
$j('#add'+sel).removeAttr("disabled"); 
          $j('#remove'+sel).hide();
        });
}

if(act=='addfriend') { $j('#add'+sel).fadeOut(0, function() {
          $j('#remove'+sel).show();
$j('#remove'+sel).removeAttr("disabled"); 
          $j('#add'+sel).hide();

        });
}

if(act=='block') { $j('#block'+sel).fadeOut(0, function() {

          $j('#unblock'+sel).show();
$j('#unblock'+sel).removeAttr("disabled"); 
          $j('#block'+sel).hide();

        });
}

if(act=='unblock') { $j('#unblock'+sel).fadeOut(0, function() {
          $j('#block'+sel).show();
$j('#block'+sel).removeAttr("disabled"); 
          $j('#unblock'+sel).hide();

        });
}

if(act=='allow') { $j('#allow'+sel).fadeOut(0, function() {
          $j('#disallow'+sel).show();
$j('#disallow'+sel).removeAttr("disabled");  
          $j('#allow'+sel).hide();

        });
}

if(act=='disallow') { $j('#disallow'+sel).fadeOut(0, function() {
          $j('#allow'+sel).show();
$j('#allow'+sel).removeAttr("disabled"); 
          $j('#disallow'+sel).hide();

        });
}


 $j("#loading").hide(); 
 $j("#loading_"+sel).hide(); 

      }
     });



    return false;
	});
	});